Oral Sex: Sucking Dick
There is something to be said about sucking dick. The velvety softness of the skin as it slides between your lips. The pulsing heat of arousal as he gets closer to coming. That sexy way his breath hitches a little as your tongue dips between foreskin and glans, to the way he tenses to keep from thrusting as you suck him. All ending with soft groans as he empties himself into your mouth.
I love sucking dick. The art of giving a blow job is just that, an art form. I have encountered many articles and blog entries about how to give a blow job, and while they had some good honest tips they were not perfect. See there is no single method that is going to get every guy off every time. The most important factor is finding out what he enjoys and going from there.
1. Be safe. One of my biggest pet peeves is how much attention vaginal and anal sex receive during safe sex practices while oral sex is largely ignored or a mere after thought. It is possible to contract an STD while engaging in oral so unless you are fluid bonded with the person please use protection. Latex or Polyurethane condoms can be used or oral. My motto is if you won't let his dick in your pussy or ass without a condom why in the world would you allow it in your mouth without one. Flavored condoms are a god send in this area, but if you prefer just get non lubricated and use flavored lube with it.
Side note: Dental dams or Sheer GLYDE dams can be used when performing for oral vaginal sex (cunnilingus) or even for rimming (also known as anilingus or licking the anus). If either of these are not readily handy you can cut a regular condom (split down one side) and use that instead.
2. Honest and open communication. Sexual partners should be at ease discussing what they like and dislike in regards to sexual acts. Relax and try to be as open during discussions as possible. Both partners should feel comfortable enough to share their preferences. The receiver should voice what sort of things they enjoy, while the giver should be honest as to what is within their capabilities (deep throating..etc) or what might make them uncomfortable.
3. Gentle guidance. This goes along with the first piece advice and expands more upon it.. Try not to insult your sexual partner but instead explain what you like and how you like it done. Likewise the giver should be open to feedback. Just because your ex liked a certain thing means that your current partner will also.
4. Try not to view it as a race or contest. take your time and don't be discouraged if you can't get your man off in minutes. Or if you can't get him off at all. Some men may actually find it difficult if not impossible to come from oral sex. This is completely normal as oral stimulation may not be enough for them or they may be too sensitive.
5. Practice. Practice. Practice. When it comes to oral sex, practice does make perfect. Practice on your partner. Practice with a dildo.Get used to feel of something phallic like in your mouth so it isn't that much of a shock when a warm throbbing one is filling up your mouth. Some individuals have a natural talent for dick sucking while others need practice.
Also don't fret too much about deep throating. While some people are able to master this with their first blow job others struggle with taking a cock down the throat. Could be a sensitive gag reflex or perhaps the dick is just is too large. There are gels for this but I honestly can't recommend them as I have never used them. If this is something that you would like to try research them and read all the reviews before purchasing.
What if he is intact(not circumcised)?
I have been with quite a few guys who were intact and never really found the foreskin to be an issue when it comes to sucking them off. As long as he keeps himself clean there shouldn't be any disgusting surprises. As I stated above ask him what he enjoys, he'll tell you. I had one partner that loved having his foreskin played with and lots of focused licks to the head while another said he was too sensitive and wanted more attention given to his shaft and balls.
I love sucking dick. The art of giving a blow job is just that, an art form. I have encountered many articles and blog entries about how to give a blow job, and while they had some good honest tips they were not perfect. See there is no single method that is going to get every guy off every time. The most important factor is finding out what he enjoys and going from there.
1. Be safe. One of my biggest pet peeves is how much attention vaginal and anal sex receive during safe sex practices while oral sex is largely ignored or a mere after thought. It is possible to contract an STD while engaging in oral so unless you are fluid bonded with the person please use protection. Latex or Polyurethane condoms can be used or oral. My motto is if you won't let his dick in your pussy or ass without a condom why in the world would you allow it in your mouth without one. Flavored condoms are a god send in this area, but if you prefer just get non lubricated and use flavored lube with it.
Side note: Dental dams or Sheer GLYDE dams can be used when performing for oral vaginal sex (cunnilingus) or even for rimming (also known as anilingus or licking the anus). If either of these are not readily handy you can cut a regular condom (split down one side) and use that instead.
3. Gentle guidance. This goes along with the first piece advice and expands more upon it.. Try not to insult your sexual partner but instead explain what you like and how you like it done. Likewise the giver should be open to feedback. Just because your ex liked a certain thing means that your current partner will also.
4. Try not to view it as a race or contest. take your time and don't be discouraged if you can't get your man off in minutes. Or if you can't get him off at all. Some men may actually find it difficult if not impossible to come from oral sex. This is completely normal as oral stimulation may not be enough for them or they may be too sensitive.
5. Practice. Practice. Practice. When it comes to oral sex, practice does make perfect. Practice on your partner. Practice with a dildo.Get used to feel of something phallic like in your mouth so it isn't that much of a shock when a warm throbbing one is filling up your mouth. Some individuals have a natural talent for dick sucking while others need practice.
Also don't fret too much about deep throating. While some people are able to master this with their first blow job others struggle with taking a cock down the throat. Could be a sensitive gag reflex or perhaps the dick is just is too large. There are gels for this but I honestly can't recommend them as I have never used them. If this is something that you would like to try research them and read all the reviews before purchasing.
What if he is intact(not circumcised)?
I have been with quite a few guys who were intact and never really found the foreskin to be an issue when it comes to sucking them off. As long as he keeps himself clean there shouldn't be any disgusting surprises. As I stated above ask him what he enjoys, he'll tell you. I had one partner that loved having his foreskin played with and lots of focused licks to the head while another said he was too sensitive and wanted more attention given to his shaft and balls.
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