tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21420058821070454992024-02-19T14:31:45.843-08:00Confessions Of A SlutI am a kinky sex toy loving slut who fucks myself with objects and then blogs about it.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04204382985689819055noreply@blogger.comBlogger84125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2142005882107045499.post-75665154263781616662017-05-02T07:08:00.005-07:002017-05-02T07:08:49.324-07:00Review: Captain<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This weeks entry in
the dildo category is <a href="https://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/realistic-dildos/captain#pcode-XMZ">Captain</a>
from Pleasure works. Captain is a realistic dildo made of 100%
silicone. A flared base allows for usage with either a harness or
toy mount. The base does not act as a suction cup so if you are
looking for something hands free and you don't have a toy mount this
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So how realistic is
captain you ask? Very realistic in shape and feel. Besides having a
pronounced head with glans it also sports a thick shaft with
realistic veins runny the length of it. The silicone is soft not
ridged hard, this allows for some bending as well as a more realistic
feel. So are far as realism goes this one of the most realistic
dildos that I own at the moment. This realism could be a turn off
for those who enjoy less realistic feel and look.</div>
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Length is a total of
7 ½ inches with an insertable length of just around 7 inches. Girth
is the higher end of the medium range coming in at 5 ¾ inches. Not
completely a size queen toy but the semi large girth means it also
not a toy for novices or those who prefer smaller thinner dildos.
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This dildo was very
filling, its girth just giving enough stretch to fill me up. Sadly I
couldn't feel the veins internally but was able to catch a hint on
them against the vaginal opening. Captain is not curved so don't
expect G spot stimulation form it. The realist shape of the head
allows for easy insertion. If you are looking for something thinner
but the same length then <a href="https://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/realistic-dildos/captain#pcode-XMZ">First
Mate</a> which is also from Pleasure Works might be more you thing.
It has almost the same length as Captain but is thinner. If you are
looking for something shorter in length and thinner then either
<a href="http://www.goodvibes.com/s/sex-toys/p/13BA39/pleasure-works/rookie-vibrating-silicone-dildo?lref=Cat%7Ccatalog70002_gv117%7C%7C14%7Cc%7C0%7C-relevance%7Ctoy_category%7C0">Rookie</a>
or <a href="http://www.goodvibes.com/s/sex-toys/p/13BA73/pleasure-works/cadet-vibrating-silicone-dildo?lref=Cat%7Ccatalog70002_gv117%7C%7C15%7Cc%7C0%7C-relevance%7Ctoy_category%7C0">Cadet</a>
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Being silicone this
dildo can be sterilized between uses which allows it to be used both
vaginally and anal as well as being shared with partners. The flared
base allow for usage with either a harness or toy mount. I usually
use it either in a toy mount or with a hand so I am not real sure how
the base will stick to smooth surfaces.
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I've owned Captain
for about two years now(this was one the reviews that got lost in the
shuffle) and while it isn't my go to dildo I still use it on
occasion. Over all I like this dildo, realistic in shape and feel and
easy to clean and store. I would recommend it for anyone who looking
for a realistic feel and look out of their dildo.</div>
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Affordable<br />
made from body safe 100% silicone<br />
Easy cleaning-can be sterilized
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Tapered head allows for easy insertion<br />
Girthy<br />
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Couldn't feel veins<br />
Might be too large for some<br />
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<b><u>Boss From Fun Factory</u></b></h3>
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<a href="https://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/strap-on-dildos/boss#pcode-XMZ">Boss</a> is usually a
word that I utter with vile contempt. But when referring to the Fun
Factory dildo it is said with praise.</div>
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Like all other Fun
Factory toys <a href="https://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/strap-on-dildos/boss#pcode-XMZ">Boss</a> is made of 100% silicone. Its total length is 7
inches with an insertable length of 6 ½ inches. With a
circumference of 5 ¼ inches boss is the mid range for girth, not to
thin and not such a monster that size queens would drool.
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with a velvety finish. Add a little lubricant and it slides right in
with little to no friction. Being made of silicone also means that
<a href="https://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/strap-on-dildos/boss#pcode-XMZ">Boss</a> can be sterilized before use which means it can be used for both
vaginal and anal penetration as well as being shared with various
partners without fear of nasty bacteria or STDs being shared.
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The flat base allows
for easy use with either a harness for partner play or sticking to a
smooth surface for solo play. The flared base also allows for use
with Liberator Toy mounts such as the Bon Bon or Wing. This use with
toy mounts is a plus as it allows for either a hands free ride or use
with a partner for double penetration. The silicone is supple not
hard. This allows for some bending during use which some users may
like.</div>
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<a href="https://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/strap-on-dildos/boss#pcode-XMZ">Boss</a> is curves for G
Spot stimulation. For me this was a let down. The curve is just not
pronounced enough for me to really get anything from it. The
pronounced glans and ridge that is along the underside did little
stimulate to the G Spot although I was able to feel it. As a regular
old dildo this was great. Easy insertion, the glans and ridges gives
some texture during use and the girth wasn't either too little or to
much. Although people who are used to smaller toys might have some
issues with it and size queens might find themselves not as filled as
desired.
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Over all I liked
<a href="https://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/strap-on-dildos/boss#pcode-XMZ">Boss</a>. Easy to use either hands free, in a harness or toy mount. Easy
to clean with some soap and water and while it may not work as a g
spot stimulator for me it none the less worked as a regular dildo. I
have seen reviews with others were able to receive G Spot stimulation
so I wouldn't write it off. I think it would depend on body type and
if a harder material like glass or metal is needed for the proper
stimulation. So keep that in mind when deciding if would like to add
Boss to your collection.
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Easy to clean and sterilize<br />
Worked great as a regular dildo<br />
Girth is in mid range<br />
Perfect length
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pretty common sense but you would not believe the amount of people I
have encountered that were in disbelief that sex toys needed to be
cleaned. These are the same people that would buy a toy and use it
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it comes to shared toys it is especially important to make sure that
they are cleaned before and after use. It is possible for sexually
transmitted infections to be transmitted via the use of sex toys.
Bacterial from the anus can also be transmitted to the vagina during
use with toys that are used for both vaginal and anal penetration,
this can also lead to an infection. Also toys that may come into
contact with the urethral opening can easily pass along bacteria that
could lead to a urinary tract infection. </span></span>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">This
why proper cleaning of your sex toys is very important and something
that I consider to be key to good sexual hygiene. Keeping them clean
will reduce ones chances of exposure to bacteria that could lead to
infections. I can think of nothing more disgusting then grabbing a
dildo to use and finding dried lube and vaginal gunk on it. It is
also a very important step in maintaining them so as to extend their
life as proper care can help inhibit the growth of nasty shit which
can damage the toy.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">A
key factor to remember is that not all materials are equal when it
comes to safety and cleaning. Toys made of non porous materials such
as glass, silicone and metal are easy to sanitize and maintain. These
materials are also body safe, can be 100% sterilized before and after
use which means that they can be shared between partners. For those
reasons that is why I recommend that you try to stick to these
materials when shopping for sex toys.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Cheaper
porous materials such as jelly, PVC, can not be effectively cleaned
and sanitized, they also degrade (break down)over time and more often
than not contain chemicals that are harmful. For those reasons toys
made of porous material should be avoided, but if you absolutely have
to use one as in there is no other option then please remember that
the toy 1. Can not be shared between partners unless fluid bonded or
a condom is used. 2.The toy can not be used for both vaginal and anal
play unless a condom is used 3.There is a risk of harmful effects
from the chemicals that may be present in the material. 4. The toy
will likely not last long before the material starts to degrade,
which means it will have to be replaced far more sooner. It is more
wise to save up for a more expensive silicone toy instead of having to keep
replacing a cheaper toy. </span></span>
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to the actual cleaning. There are many different methods of cleaning
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easiest is just wiping down the toy with either cleaning wipe
specially made for sex toys, an anti bacterial wipe or a baby wipe. I
only use a baby wipe for a quick cleaning if the toy has already been
thoroughly cleaned and you just need to remove lint, hair ect that it
might have picked up while waiting for use. </span></span>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">2.
Soap and water. You can use either toy cleaner, hand soap, or dish
soap. Be careful when cleaning vibrators as this could possibly
destroy the motor if water gets inside. In the case of items that are
not water proof I typically use a misting toy cleaner and then wipe
clean with a damp cloth.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">3.
Wiping down with a bleach solution or bleach wipe. This can sterilize
the toy. Make sure to rinse thoroughly afterward before use. </span></span>
</div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">The
following methods of cleaning can be only be used only on non
vibrating/non motor toys:</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">1.
Dishwasher. </span></span>
</div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">2.
Boiling. This is a great way to sterilize toys.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">3.
Soaking in a bleach solution.</span></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div align="left" style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Upon
first receiving a sex toy the first thing I do is clean them. All new
dildos are boiled while vibrators are given a thorough washing with
either anti bacterial soap or toy cleaner and then rinsed/wiped
clean. </span></span>
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<br /></div>
<div align="left" style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Before
each use I simply wipe down the toy with either a toy cleaning wipe
or baby wipe to remove anything that the material might have picked
up. After each use the toys are given a scrub or boiled depending on if the toy was used vaginally or for anal play.
Afterward I either let them air dry or pat them dry with a lint free
cloth. </span></span>
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<br /></div>
<div align="left" style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><b>If
toys have textured grooves or crevices </b><b>I use a toothbrush to
help clean them. </b> </span></span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div align="left" style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">There
are a variety of methods that can be used to store toys. I find that
pouches, bags, cases and smaller storage bins work great. This allows
for some organization while they are stored in my dresser. Before
putting away any toy I first make sure that they are 100% cleaned and
dry. Toys that are still damp can lead to bacterial or mold growth. </span></span>
</div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">I
like to store my dildos inside individual bags. This is stop colors
from leaching and also to prevent any type of a reaction (although it
is safe to store 100% silicone together without fear of melting, I
just am anal when it comes to storage) Glass toys are kept inside individual padded pouches to
prevent nicks, scratches and chips from them jostling around. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">There are endless ideas as to where to store your toys. A quick google will show you the variety of ways that people store their toys from cases dedicated to sex toys to plastic storage units. To purchase toy cleaner or storage follow these links.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">Toy Cleaners at <a href="https://www.pinkcherry.com/lubes-and-lotions/sex-toy-cleaner">Pink Cherry</a> </span><a href="http://www.adameve.com/search.aspx?st=cleaner">Adam & Eve</a> <a href="http://www.shevibe.com/personal-wipes-and-toy-cleaners.aspx">SheVibe</a> <a href="http://adult.babeland.com/search?asug=&w=cleaner">Babeland</a> <a href="https://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-essentials/sex-toy-cleaners-and-wipes">Eden Fantasys</a> <a href="https://www.liberator.com/catalogsearch/result/?q=cleaner">Liberator</a><br />
Storage at <a href="https://www.pinkcherry.com/toy-boxes">Pink Cherry</a> <a href="http://www.adameve.com/search.aspx?st=storage">Adam &Eve</a> <a href="http://www.shevibe.com/sex-toy-storage.aspx">Shevibe</a> <a href="https://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-essentials/toy-storage">Eden Fantasys</a> <a href="https://www.liberator.com/sex-toys/toy-cases.html">Liberator</a><br />
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12pt;">I hope this post was helpful. Please feel free to share how you like to clean and store your sex toys. </span></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04204382985689819055noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2142005882107045499.post-23841773608470945232017-04-20T07:21:00.000-07:002017-04-20T07:21:22.366-07:00Warming it is not. <div align="center" style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
<u><b>Sensation
Warming Lubricant</b></u></div>
<div align="center" style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
<u><b>From
ID Lubricants</b></u><br />
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Recently I went on a lubricant buying spree. Considering that I
engage in some form of sexual behavior every day (masturbation,
sexual intercourse etc) I like to have a nice sized stock pile of
lube on hand. I figured this shopping spree I would include a few
that might also be able to be used as massage oil so I picked up a
2.2 oz bottle of the Sensation Warming Lubricant from ID Lubricants.
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<br /></div>
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This water based lube is compatible with all materials including
latex which allows for multiple uses. It has a faint cinnamon odor
and taste which I did not find to over powering or unpleasant. Its
ingredient list is rather long which caused me some pause as I do
have sensitive skin.</div>
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<br /></div>
<div align="left" style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
Water/aqua/eau, Glycerin, Propylene Glycol, Caffeine,
Menthoxypropanediol, Niacin, Paullinia Cupana (guarana) Leaf Extract,
Vanillyl Butyl Ether, Carbomer, Edta, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Peg-45m,
Tetrahydroxypropyl Ethylenediamine, Methylparaben, Sodium Benzoate,
Flavor.</div>
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Glycerin is listed which can be a concern as it can cause yeast
infections. For this reason alone I would not use this lubricant for
penetration play but instead chose to give it a go as a massage
lotion and for nipple stimulation. Although for the sake of this review I used it along with a dildo and simulated a hand job. </div>
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For both it was a total bust. There was absolutely no warming
sensation, and worse it quickly went from slick to sticky. I was
lucky if it stayed slick for more than two minutes before feeling
like a sticky, gloopy mess on my shoulders. Even during the simulated hand job it became tacky feeling. About the only good thing is the smell, it has a faint cinnamon odor to it.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04204382985689819055noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2142005882107045499.post-64351503379942075392017-04-19T06:55:00.001-07:002017-05-02T07:15:37.100-07:00Tale of Two Wands<div style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
<i>Having a serious
mental illness means that I have to take medicine to manage my
symptoms. I have seen lots of bloggers talk about the sexual side
effects of the medicine that is used to treat anxiety and depression
but few have discussed matters relating to what are known as SMI's or
serious mental illness.* Often times the medications used to treat
SMI's has devastating effects on sexual function. This includes loss
of sexual desire and difficulty or inability to achieve orgasm. For
men it mean both those and erectile dysfunction. There really isn't a
single solution to help over come these problems. The only advice I
can give is to explore sexually. Don't be afraid to add sex toys to
the mix. Think of them as extensions or things that compliment sexual
activity rather than replacements. If you are the partner of someone
who having sexual side effects due to medication please be patient
with your partner, don't place blame and remember we need these
medications to function in every day life and to be free from
psychosis and other symptoms. Communication is key here and both
partners need to feel that they express themselves in a non
judgmental environment. </i>
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1.<a href="https://www.pinkcherry.com/miracle-massager">
<b>Miracle Massager from Cal Exotics</b></a></div>
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I have always been
weary of buying the wand styled massagers. I am not a power queen in
any way shape or form. The very thought of intense strong vibrations
causes my sensitive clit to berate me about the possible consequences
that it would suffer should I attempt to use a power monster upon it.
Even a few of my various sexual partners would question why a sex toy
loving slut such as I lacked what many considered a common staple in
the toy box. I would politely remind them that simple watch battery
bullets could make me cum. Of course this was before I sought
treatment for my mental illness as an adult(was in treatment as a
teenager)</div>
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<div style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
I am a curious
creature (<i>with a slight masochistic streak I should add</i>) and
oh so bad when it comes to temptation (<i>sometimes it so difficult
to say no</i>) so when I actually thought about the pros and cons I
broke down and purchased one of these “muscle massagers.” Add to
this the fact that the medications used to treat my Schizoaffective
disorder also interfere with sexual pleasure and you have the perfect
storm for me to impulsively buy a wand or two or three.
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After looking over
the options I settled first on the Miracle Massager from California
Exotics. It was priced reasonably <a href="http://www.pinkcherry.com/miracle-massager">cheaper</a>
than the others, which is a plus when you are not really that all
sure you will even like the vibrations. My only hope was that is
would be able to get me off despite my antipsychoyic induced sexual
dysfunction.</div>
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For me, this wand is
angled for a better reach. This angling means that my hand and/or
wrist doesn't need to be held in an odd position for maximum use.
This angle could present issues for some people as not all bodies are
shaped the same. The rumbling vibrations engulf the whole vulva
which is a plus. Another plus is that this wand packs a punch. The
strong rumbling vibrations are great at getting me off.
</div>
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It has two setting
setting high and low. Simple yes, but it may be an issue for those
who like more pulsing vibrations or variation is their vibration
intensity. Over all I am impressed with the Miracle Massager, it
does get me off and quickly. As of late is has been my go to
vibrator.</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
It is made of ABS
plastic and PVC which means that it can't be sterilized although it
is possible to purchase silicone attachments that can be used with
it.
</div>
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<br /></div>
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It measures 10.5
inches length so keep that it mind if larger items are something that
you wish to stay away from.</div>
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2. <a href="https://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/massagers/rechargeable-hitachi-style-wand"><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><b>Rechargeable
Hitachi style wand from Eden Fantasys</b></span></span></span></a></div>
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Next up is
<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Rechargeable
Hitachi style wand. </span></span></span><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">I
purchased this on sale over at Eden Fantasy.</span></span></span><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">
</span></span></span><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">I
</span></span></span><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">was
drawn to the</span></span></span><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">
fact that it is cordless </span></span></span><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">and
rechargeable.</span></span></span><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">
This allows more better range of movement and also means that I
don't have to masturbate next to an electrical outlet. </span></span></span><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">The
head is also silicone which means it can be easily cleaned and
sterilized.</span></span></span></div>
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<div style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
It has multiple
settings for vibration intensity and pattern. This includes low and
high intensity vibrations. In all there are 10 separate settings. The
control pad is easy to use and I never accidentally changes settings
while in use. Now I did find that the low setting on this wand to be
too low while the highest setting in somewhere between the low and
high setting on Miracle Massager. So this massager is less powerful
than the Miracle Massager. Thankfully this was not an issue, but it
may be something to keep in mind when trying to purchase a wand.
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Another difference
is sound. This is much more quieter than the Miracle Massager.
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It recharges via USB
port, but doesn't seem to take long to recharge, maybe an hour tops.
Another thing is it holds a charge for awhile. So far I have only had
to recharge it once a week, although if you use it more than a few
times a week you may have to recharge it sooner.
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I liked the
portability, being able to use it without being in a arms length of
an outlet is a plus. While weaker than Miracle Massager it was still
strong enough to get the job done.
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Attachments can be
used with wands and I found that the heads were similar in size that
the same attachments can be used on both. The cost of both is
comparable. This one is a little bigger with an over all length of 12
and half inches. A perfect storage solution is the <a href="https://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toy-accessories/sex-toy-storage/eden-toy-case">Eden
Fantasy Toy case</a>. (my review can be found <a href="http://slutsconfessions.blogspot.com/2016/02/review-eden-toy-case.html">here</a>
) This case not only locks but is also large enough to hold a wand
styled massager (I can fit both wands in one case)</div>
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<b>The Break down
(comparing the two in detail)</b></div>
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Miracle Massager
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<td style="border: 1px solid #000000; padding: 0.04in;" width="33%"><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Rechargeable
Hitachi style wand</span></span></span></td>
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reflective on when post was posted and may be subject to change)</i></span></td>
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<td style="border-bottom: 1px solid #000000; border-left: 1px solid #000000; border-right: none; border-top: none; padding-bottom: 0.04in; padding-left: 0.04in; padding-right: 0in; padding-top: 0in;" width="33%">Angled for better reach<br />
Powerful<br />
Can be used with liberator toy mounts<br />
Attachments can be used</td>
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Holds a charge
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Multiple settings<br />
Can be used with liberator toy mounts<br />
Attachments can be used</td>
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Not cordless, need to be near outlet<br />
Angle might not work for some</td>
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Not as powerful</td>
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<span style="font-family: "liberation" serif , serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;"><i><span style="color: #222222;">*Severe
mental illness is often defined by its length of duration and the
disability it produces. These illnesses include disorders that
produce psychotic symptoms, such as schizophrenia and schizoaffective
disorder, and severe forms of other disorders, such as major
depression and bipolar disorder.</span> </i></span></span>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04204382985689819055noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2142005882107045499.post-46501200870064581722017-04-05T09:27:00.001-07:002017-04-05T09:27:13.713-07:00Sex and mental illnessI wrote this piece for my other blog but thought that I would link out to here. <br />
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<a href="http://melancholiamania.blogspot.com/2017/02/sex-and-mental-illness.html">Sex and Mental Illness</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04204382985689819055noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2142005882107045499.post-13019065411440897302017-03-17T08:16:00.000-07:002017-03-17T08:16:41.733-07:00Update <div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
I am asking that
my readers have patience. In the near future this blog will be active
once again. My mental illness has taken a lot out of me as has the
treatment. I have multiple reviews in various stages of writing and
editing and even a few articles. At this time I have been more
focused on my other blog <span style="color: blue;"><a href="http://melancholiamania.blogspot.com/"><span style="color: blue;">Of
Melancholia, Mania and Psychosis</span></a>.</span></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04204382985689819055noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2142005882107045499.post-26719194803726381252017-03-17T08:01:00.000-07:002017-03-17T08:01:46.365-07:00Review - Toy cases from Liberator<div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
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A little over a year and a half ago I went on a little spending spree over at Liberator. Due to events that were out of my control I never got around to reviewing any of the items that I bought. I figured better late then never. If my memory is correct I purchased multiple items including storage bags, a dildo and the Bon Bon. </div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Of the two storage bags that I purchased Sadly one of them in no longer available on Liberators site but I am still including the review in case it ever comes back in stock. Vespa and Hexi are part of
the Couture Cases that are put out by Liberator. I was pretty excited
when I first saw them, and quite honestly wished that I could afford
the whole line. They are the perfect storage solution. Like Dante
both Vespa and Hexi are made of denim and twill. The denim is black
in color while the twill part comes in different colors.</span></span></span></div>
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Vespa's measurements are </span></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">10.5 inches x 9 inches. This size allows for ample storage and it easily holds all my
anal plugs while only be filled half way. </span></span></span></div>
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15” x 6”, being longer it is capable of holding a Magic Wand or
even some bondage gear. I use mine for storing my Tantus Paddle, a
set of wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs, a leather flogger, and a leather
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Both of these bags make great storage solutions. They easily fit inside a drawer or over night bag, are discrete and having dual zipper tabs can be locked secure. I absolutely love the toy bags over at Liberator my only concern with them is the prices. Many are pricey and outside even my price range considering the price of one of them is easily the same as some of he higher end toys. </div>
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If you have sex toys
that need stored and are looking for a sack type storage, the <a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toy-accessories/sex-toy-storage/toynary-toy-drawstring-pouch">Toy Storage Bag </a>from Toynary is a great solution. Extremely affordable,
it won't eat into your budget and this quality made pouch can hold a
lot.
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With a total length
of 11 inches (roughly about 9 ½ inches when cinched closed) and a
width of 7 inches this toy bag can fit a variety of different sized
items. If you need a storage bag for some butt plugs, or a rabbit
vibrator or a medium to small sized dildo this bag is perfect. You
just might want something to store some of your smaller BDSM items
like cuffs, chains and rope this bag will be able to accommodate your
items and perhaps still have room for a some other toys. Larger toys
such as paddles, whips and spreader bars will not fit inside this.
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It is made of nylon
and both layers are water resistant, per manufacturers claim. The
outer part is black and has a silky texture to it while the inner
lining is white. The white part means that there are no dyes that
can accidentally stain toys. It also devoid of any type of fuzz that
could transfer to items. The drawstring is held closed by a plastic
tab keeping it secure. There is no way to lock this obviously, so if
you are looking for something that completely secures your items keep
this in mind.</div>
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This is just a
single pouch bag so there are no compartments that can used to keep
items stored separately inside. Items that may leech colors or cause
interactions with others will still need to be in their own
individual bags (either a plastic bag or a cloth bag) before being
placed inside of this.
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It tucks nicely
inside a dresser drawer, suitcase or even another larger toy case. I
was actually keeping mine inside of my Eden toy case to keep my wand
attachments organized. Currently it is being used to store toys that
haven't been used yet. The bag is quality made and even when stuffed
full the seams didn't rip or separate.
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I like that the bag
is black, making it a perfect unisex storage solution. It nicely
holds Tenga eggs, cock rings and even some strokers/masturabtors. I
am more than likely going to purchase another one in the near future
to help with the storage of my male partners toys. While he doesn't
have many the few that he does have are currently being stored in a
make-up bag or just laying loose in a dresser drawer.
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There were no care
instructions included, but I have machine washed mine and it didn't
fray. My suggestion would be to just toss inside a mesh lingerie
wash bag. This will help keep the drawstring from becoming caught on
something and ripped out. I hung mine up to air dry as I was hesitant
to tumble dry even on low heat for fear of damage. The color never
faded and the material was still silky in feel.</div>
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This bag is the
perfect storage idea for odds and ends and something that I would
recommend getting. The price is fairly affordable and it tucks away
nicely inside I either a drawer or medium or larger toy case. </div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04204382985689819055noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2142005882107045499.post-79718348264854184892017-02-20T08:48:00.000-08:002017-03-17T08:11:25.554-07:00One Hell of a Ride<div style="line-height: 100%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Liberation Serif, serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">This
past year has been a wild year. My symptoms progressively got worse
as time went on, and after seeking full help for them I walked away
with a brand new diagnosis, Schizoaffective Disorder Bipolar
sub-type. This new diagnosis gave me some insight as to why treatment
for Bipolar disorder alone never really worked and why I seemed to
suffer from extreme paranoia and mild to moderate delusions outside
of mood episodes.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Liberation Serif, serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">If
you are curious as what exactly Schizoaffective is here is a brief
description that is provided by <a href="http://www.mentalhealthamerica.net/conditions/schizoaffective-disorder"><span style="color: blue;">Mental
Health America</span></a> Schizoaffective disorder is characterized by
persistent symptoms of psychosis resembling schizophrenia with
additional periodic symptoms of mood (or affective) disorders</span></span><span style="color: #444444;"><span style="font-family: Liberation Serif, serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span></span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Liberation Serif, serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">In
relation to my illness this means that while I show the extreme mood
episodes that are commonly associated with Bipolar I also present
with additional symptoms in between these episodes that are closer to
schizophrenia.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Liberation Serif, serif;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Right
now the medications that are being used, atypical antipsychotics are
pretty much sapping my sex drive. I am going to attempt to get this
blog active again. It might take some time and posting may be
sporadic but I will be doing my best.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Liberation Serif", serif; font-size: 12pt;">If
you are interested I have started a blog that deals with my mental
illness, </span><a href="http://melancholiamania.blogspot.com/" style="font-family: "Liberation Serif", serif; font-size: 12pt;"><span style="color: blue;">Of
Melancholia, Mania and Psychosis.</span></a><span style="font-family: "Liberation Serif", serif; font-size: 12pt;"> I will be covering not
only my mental illness but also tips on how to live with it and
decrease symptoms. Some of these entries might even cross posted to
here, but for the most part the two blogs will remain separated for
the time being. </span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Relationship
and sex advice columnists always stress that not only are basic
mutual interests essential but sexual compatibility is also a crucial
factor for having a healthy, loving and satisfying relationship as a
whole. That if one or both partners are not on the same page that
there will be dissatisfaction which will lead to resentment and
eventually a break down of the relationship.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">While
I am not an expert and I am not disputing their advice per say but I
do gotta say that from my own experience it is possible to have a
steady, stable, healthy and satisfying relationship even if you and
your partner are far from compatible when it comes to sex. Yes it
takes work. Yes it is not always a simple process. And no this might
not work for every one who is reading this.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">My
own experience is that for about the past decade I have been in a
relationship with someone yet he and I are worlds apart when it comes
to not only every day interests but also desired activities between
the sheets. If one were to list all our likes and interests side by
side they would see that we actually have very little in common
outside of sense of humor and a love of reading( and even the types
of books we enjoy are different). To give a brief example of this he
enjoys mainstream rock music, reading fantasy books and watching art
house films while I am heavily into extreme metal (death and black),
Science Fiction and horror novel and would rather watch a gore flick
over anything else. Add to this wonderful mix of differences the
fact that I have a serious mental illness that can effect not only
how my mind functions but also pretty much every aspect of my life.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">When
it comes to sex we are even further apart. He is rather romantic,
gentle and vanilla in his tastes to put it bluntly, while I on the
other hand enjoy hard BDSM, healthy doses of fetish and a good hard
fucking. His lack of experience and his honest non desire to engage
in the activities that turn me on are reason enough not even attempt
them. I would never ask that he do something that would make him feel
uncomfortable as I honestly would receive no enjoyment knowing that
he was not enjoying it.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">This
begs to question, how have we made it work all these years. One would
assume that the answer is by having an open relationship, a mutual
understanding and consent to step out on each other, but that is not
the case. His definition of a relationship involves exclusivity and
faithfulness. Something that I was well aware of before heading into
this relationship, and something that in spite of my own beliefs and
prior positive experiences with open relationships will and fully do
respect.</span></span></span></div>
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is that very same respect that I have for him that also leads me to
not pressure him to explore areas that are not to his taste or sigh
with displeasure at the fact that some of my more erotic fantasies
can not be played out. Just as he is patient and respectful with the
fact that I may not be as open to having a night a love making or
that our sex drives are out of sync due to our differences in wants
in the bedroom.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">The
major key here to our success is respect as you can see. Other
components are patience, understanding, open communication, and not
belittling the other for their likes and/or dislikes. The open
communication allows us to tackle head on any issues that may come up
instead allowing them to fester and grow until they become an
unsolvable problem. Another advantage of that is that combined with
our mutual respect if it easier for us to actually talk about things
that we may like to try or not try without a fear of being judged.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">We
were very much aware of our differences heading into the
relationship, and didn't just jump into it without first debating the
possible impact it was going to have on our sex lives. That open line
of communication was there from the very beginning, and while some of
the more graphic details and kinks were left unsaid the very basics
were touched up and talked about. This I think is what keeps any type
of resentment from forming. We knew full well from early on that we
were not sexually compatible yet still choose to pursue a
relationship with each other.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Another
thing that is important is the lost art of compromise. People tend to
ignore this is relationships, even if two people are drastically
different it may be possible to find a middle ground that both are
satisfied with. If he is desiring X and I am wanting Z is it possible
to incorporate a little of both or maybe find something completely
different that we might both equally enjoy. Again an open and non
judgmental line of communication helps us to find that middle area.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Patience
is something that both will need to nurture as there will be times
when a middle ground can not be found and each person is left
stranded. The patience will make it possible to deal with frustration
that results from perhaps a failed sexual encounter or the other not
being able to be in the mood. </span></span></span>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Understanding
and accepting that the other has different wants and desires.
Different tastes and kinks will help you both navigate through murky
waters when things get a little tense. </span></span></span>
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would think that being non judgmental is something that he works on a
little more. Our past experiences are very different and even our
views and opinions of sex differ greatly. He the more romantic of us
having less experience and a far lower number, while I the adventure
seeker have engaged in activities such as three ways and full blown
exhibitionism on more than a few occasions. Another thing that is
important for people who may find themselves in a similar situation
is that is a good idea to always be mindful with what you share with
your partner.</span></span></span></div>
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mental illness is a factor education is also very important. With all
the various misconceptions that are out there and misrepresentations
in the media it is important that one is familiar with the realities
of mental illness. Far too often people either have an incomplete
image or one that is entirely wrong. Even if one has a basic
understanding it never hurts to educate yourself more as often times
these illnesses can present with a wide range of symptoms. Also the
medications that are often used as treatment can have side effects
that may cause strife in a relationship. Don't be afraid to discuss
side effects with your Dr and how these side effects are impacting
your relationship. </span></span></span>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">I
will not pretend that any of this is easy, and yes on a few occasions
our discussions have turned to why is that we have remained together
over the years. My own mental illness has served as a road block on
a few occasions over the years. The roller coaster of mood swings
that impact ones sex drive can be difficult in relationships that
aren't fraught with compatibility issues. </span></span></span>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">We
work hard to keep and maintain what we have, each mindful of the fact
that when it comes down to even the basic mundane things we are not
only a different pages but perhaps even on different books in life. I
can't really say for sure which one of us has the most struggles in
our relationship but in the end that really doesn't matter. All that
matters is like any relationship should be we tackle each issue and
obstacle that arises as a team. That no matter our differences we are
able to overcome them by working through them together. That our
mutual trust, respect for the other, and emotional connection gives
us the strength and insight to keep working together. Which is really
how any healthy relationship should be</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><i>*I chose to do this piece on a relationship with two people involved. Relationships that involve more individuals often times have different sets of challenges that I feel need their own space. Currently I have <a href="http://slutsconfessions.blogspot.com/2013/04/open-relationships.html">this piece</a> written about open relationships. I do plan on revisiting that topic and also exploring multiple partner relationships. </i></span></span></span></div>
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<u><b>Healthy
Expression of Sexuality and some Tips</b></u></div>
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I know that last year I wrote about this topic. I merely scratched the surface in that post and this one has been sitting as a draft waiting to get finished since last Spring (damn you mood episodes which robbed me of so much in the last year)<br />
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<span style="line-height: 100%;">I frequently see the term Sex Positive thrown around by many
bloggers. While I agree that every individual should be empowered to
have a healthy and positive outlook on sex and sexuality I do not
agree with some fellow bloggers in their definition of Sex Positive. I also see less of a positive attitude and more of one that is dripping with venomous hatred, ignorance to the true diversity of human sexuality and arrogance. </span></div>
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Far too often I have seen comments in regards to what is “normal”
and “abnormal”. They encourage people to engage in behavior that
they, the blogger sees as a normal expression of human sexuality.
They disregard the notion that some behaviors or beliefs are ingrained as "immoral" by society, religion, personal belief etc (virginity is a big one here) or fail to recognize that people are naturally inclined to have their own likes and dislikes. Our sexual wants and needs are as diverse as our favorite foods and yet when
that diversity shows up in a comment many bloggers are quick to say
things that are actually quite the opposite of sex positive.
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<span style="line-height: 100%;">While many of my friends and I actively engage in discussions on sex, there
are also a few in our group that view such conversations as a more
private matter. For them such topics should only be discussed
between them and their partner. They are uncomfortable divulging
details or even just discussing topics that are of a sexual nature.</span></div>
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None of these people are abnormal. For some sex is a very intimate
and private matter. I define sex positive as a complex mixture of
healthy expression that is true to self and not shaming others
because they have a differently held morals/likes/dislikes than I.
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A few things to remember when tossing around the phrase sex positive.</div>
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<b>1. Not everyone is the same</b>. We have our own quirks, our own kinks, our own fetishes and our own turn ons. They may not align up with others
but as long as everything is consensual then it is okay.</div>
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Imagine reading a sex toy review where the author raves about the
product and then a reader points out that they did not enjoy the toy.
Instead of encouraging a discussion on the different types of toys
and how they may work for one person and not another the author says
something along this lines “You must be seriously weird, that
vibrator/dildo/anal toy etc is the greatest invention.”</div>
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Or maybe a reader has a fetish that involves humiliation, or certain
kinds of clothing props and the author says things in regards to how
such types of fetishes are anti-female/anti-male. That any person
who indulges in such fetishes need help.</div>
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If the adult reader is only indulging their fantasies with consenting adult partners then what they are doing is neither wrong or abnormal. Just
because a company creates and markets toys to a niche fantasy market
does not make them misogynistic, it just means that they see a market
for those sexual products. Also the people using them are also not
necessarily misogynistic themselves.</div>
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The same goes for sex toys and masturbation. Not everyone enjoys
masturbation with sex toys. Some may not enjoy penetration toys while
others due to sensitivity may not actually enjoy the use of
vibrators(or prefer less powerful ones) and then there are some
don't even enjoy the very act of masturbation. Keep that in mind when
approached by readers who may be questioning the need to use sex toys. </div>
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<b>2. Being sex positive means not harboring any negative thoughts
towards any consensual activity or sexual preferences or even the
frequency and activities of others.</b></div>
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Not everyone is poly or can engage in hedonistic sex. For some, a single sexual
partner is all they really want. They only want to have sex with a
person with who they have an intense emotional connection with. Others
may enjoy sexual activity with multiple partners, or sexual acts
without emotional connection.</div>
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Some people are honestly comfortable and satisfied with only engaging
in a few positions strictly within the confines of the bedroom and
yet others have a zest for adventure and variety.
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A persons actual sex drive could be such as they only want/need
sexual contact a few times a month if not less. Then there are those
on the opposite end of spectrum who need sex frequently.</div>
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The key is as long as that person is happy, and has a fulfilling sex
life on their terms with partners that are consenting and in agreement with these terms then there is
nothing wrong. They don't need encouraged to go try XYZ to be awoken
sexually. They are already happy and secure in their sexuality.</div>
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<b>3. Bragging about the products </b><b>you</b><b> get for free to
review comes across to many of your readers as immature.</b><br />
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I am not
talking about the FCC compliance disclaimers, those can't/shouldn't
be dropped from blogs.</div>
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Yeah its great that companies trust your opinion enough to send you
free items to test and review, but that doesn't mean you can do
multiple entries on the just the fact that you get all your sexual
products for free. Besides being immature it also can be viewed as
highly unprofessional. It honestly also makes it seem as if you are
only doing this for those free items.<br />
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I think every reader can get the posts that are dripped in excitement about getting the chance to review a coveted toy, but it is another thing when almost every other post makes mentions of all the freebies you get and are only related to that.</div>
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<b>4. As much as I see the term misogyny tossed around I really think
sex positive bloggers need to learn the term misandry.</b></div>
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There is nothing wrong with having female positive/empowering posts
but don't do it at the expense of the other genders. Far too often I
have encountered posts that degrade males or marginalize them. And
while the War on Women is very real that doesn't mean that every male
is against them. Also on that point, men can support and sympathize
with women in these matters. Telling men things like “No you can't
support us because you are a man.” is like telling straight people
“you can't support gay rights because you have no clue what it
really like to be gay.”</div>
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Plain and simple, the vast majority of men are not rapists. The vast
majority of men actually do support gender equality. The vast
majority of men are not slut shaming misogynistic pigs. So stop
portraying them all as that. It is okay to call out the true pigs
but don't lump every male into that category. Besides as I stated in
another post I have encountered far more women engaging in slut
shaming than men in my life. You want to change attitudes and media portrayals then start
with your own genders first. Direct your anger at the women who also behave no better than the men that you repeatably slam into. </div>
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<b>5. Your kinks and fetishes are yours and mine are mine.</b></div>
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Someones kinks or fetishes don't match up to yours, that is fine. It
is also fine to even state that but demonizing others for having a
kink or fetish that turns you off is the opposite of sex
positive. BDSM isn't your thing, that is okay. It is not okay to
portray men who are doms as abusive, misogynistic pigs who hate
woman or female subs as weak and in need of help. </div>
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<b>6. Research terms before using them. </b>
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I see the term pansexual used a lot to describe people. More often
than not these same people also moan about the fact that
men/woman/transmen/transwoman/ect flirt with them. They will then go
on to state how they are not attracted to that sex/gender but only
attracted to people who are (insert sex/gender here). That is not
pansexuality. The actual definition of pansexual is sexual attraction
regardless of sex and gender. To put this in simple terms if you are
not sexually attracted to person for the reason that they have a
penis or those who lack a penis then you are not pansexual. For
pansexuals the genitalia or gender identity is not a factor what so
ever in forming sexual attraction. They are attracted to the person
not their parts.
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The same goes with genderqueer. This gets tossed around as much as
pansexual. More often than not it is tossed out there to make the person appear more trendy and edgy when in reality it becomes quickly obvious that the writer is just trying to impress others.</div>
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Don't be trendy, just be yourself. Many times when people are being trendy it shows in their lack of actual knowledge of the terms and the content of their writing. </div>
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<b>7. Education! </b></div>
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Sexual education is important. While experience is a great teacher it never hurts to hit the books (so to speak). Keep expanding your sexual knowledge, and unless your blog is a about specific aspect of human sexuality or sex acts try to write about various different topics. There are many areas of sex, sexuality, and sex education that get ignored in pursuit of topics that have been covered by dozens of other bloggers. </div>
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Another thing to remember when it comes to education is that in a way we are educators our selves. Or at least that is how our readers look at us. If a person comes to you either publicly or privately with questions treat them with respect and not with ridicule and disdain. Many people are not afforded the opportunity of having access to a comprehensive sexual education. Yes, yes I know there is the internet. Even in the day with quick internet searches it is still possible for a person to lack knowledge or still hold onto misinformation.<br />
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<b>8. Ditch the arrogance.</b><br />
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This goes along with # 7 but I felt that it deserved its own separate entry do the proliferation of this kind of behavior. <br />
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Some days while reading other blogs I am not sure if I am reading something written by an adult or an immature brat. The level of arrogance and extreme tilt towards being offended by even the slightest critical comment or suggestion is mind numbing. If you are calling yourself a sex educator this type of behavior comes across as unprofessional at the least and as as highly ignorant towards differing opinions and insecure in more extreme cases. <br />
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These tips are not meant to offend or even single out bloggers. If anything they are meant for those who are considering pursuing this.And I am sure that as time goes on I will expand to this list.<br />
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Mental Illness does not mean crazy.</div>
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Mental Illness does not mean psycho.<br />
Mental Illness is just that, an illness.</div>
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Mental Illness does not define who I am.</div>
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But Mental Illness does effect every aspect of my life.</div>
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My sex drive can be over drive. Porn and masturbation taking up much of my day.<br />
Or leave me entirely,wanting nothing and finding no pleasure in it.<br />
My sex drive follows the ebb of my moods.<br />
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These moods effect my work performance:</div>
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At times I can have bursts of productive energy that seem limitless. </div>
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Other times I am so distracted by racing thoughts that I can't concentrate.</div>
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And yet other times I lack energy and drive to leave my bed let alone work.</div>
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I can feel worthless and wracked with guilt, contemplating leaving this life behind.<br />
Thought of death and suicide occupying every thought.</div>
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I can feel unstoppable, on top of the world. So full of ideas and energy that I feel I might burst.</div>
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I can feel paranoid, out of control and slip into periods of psychosis.<br />
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I have experienced the extreme delusional highs of mania<br />
and the suicidal lows of depression.<br />
I have had the experience of mixed state, where symptoms of both are present.<br />
These episodes can last weeks if not months.<br />
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I do not swing between two extreme poles constantly.<br />
I have some periods of "normal" or baseline.<br />
I cherish these times when I am not at mercy of an ill brain.<br />
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I can be difficult to be around.<br />
Unpredictable.<br />
Arrogant.<br />
Risk taking.<br />
In the throes of psychosis.<br />
Manic.<br />
Irritable.<br />
Agitated.<br />
Apathetic.<br />
Melancholic.<br />
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I am not Bipolar.</div>
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I have Bipolar!</div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><i>*My recent lack of posts was due to battling the symptoms of <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bipolar_I_disorder">Bipolar 1 Disorder</a>, which rose its ugly head after years of being stable. I plan on doing a post about sexual health, relationships and mental health in the near future. </i></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><i><br /></i></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04204382985689819055noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2142005882107045499.post-21160999238474069162016-02-16T09:15:00.001-08:002016-02-16T10:17:08.790-08:00Review: Eden toy case<h2 style="text-align: center;">
<b><u>Eden Toy Case</u></b></h2>
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<b>From Eden Toys</b></h3>
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Having quite a large
collection of sex toys can be a plus. Various toys to pick from for
either a good solo fuck or using with a partner is useful, fun and
means variation. Such large collection can also lead to storage
dilemmas. The need to keep toys secure, clean and yet within easy
reach can be problematic if one is using cases and pouches that can't
be locked. So one begins the search for lockable cases. Most of
which are expensive and those that aren't are often only able to fit
a single toy or two, too large to fit snugly inside a nightstand
drawer or under the bed. Many are made of inferior quality or are
nothing more than a soft sided pouch that does very little to hide
what is inside.
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I had been debating for some time as to if I should splurge a little
and purchase any of the various lockable toy cases that are out there
on the market. While I do tend to use make-up bags and drawstring toy
pouches for storage, I found myself wanting something that could
store some of my most used items neatly, securely and discreetly next
to the bedside. I knew that I needed something that was large enough
to hold not only a wand styled massager but maybe also a dildo, some
anal toys, a small vibrator, lubricant and cleaning wipes. I also
didn't want to spend a lot of money and the <a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toy-accessories/sex-toy-storage/eden-toy-case#pcode-XMZ">EdenToy Case</a> from Eden Fantasys appeared to be the perfect answer.
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The Toy Case from Eden Toys is larger than I expected. While I had
read the site description which lists its length as 13 inches with a
6 inch width, I was pleasantly surprised to find that it can indeed
hold quite a bit. Depth was not listed, but my measurements came to a
little over 2 inches, so it is deep enough for use with a wand
massager or toys where the girth is about two inches or smaller.
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While I have preference for the color black and tend to shy away from
brighter colors, the purple color is not too overwhelming and not all
that obnoxious. According to the description found on the Eden
Fantasys website this case is made of polyurethane. The hard outer
shell has a smooth almost silky texture to it. The outside duel
zippers can accommodate a small lock (no lock is included) to help
secure items from accidental discovery. The zipper functions as
expected and seems be securely stitched and able to withstand
repeated use. It doesn't look cheaply made or tacky which is always
a plus.
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The inside is pink with the mesh pouch and straps being black. The
pink lining appears to made out of soft cloth like material that is
also smooth to the touch. A plus side is not only is the material
lint free but should it pick up some lint, pet fur, hair etc it wipes
up very easily. This makes it a very good worry free storage case if
such are an issue.
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One side has elastic straps to hold larger toys such as rabbits, a
wand massager and even dildos in place. The straps have quite a bit
of give and are stitched in the upper side of the case near the top
rather than to the actual base, this means here is roughly about
3/4ths of an inch between the strap and case. So keep in mind that
smaller items such as thin beginner dildos, anal probes and thin
vibrators may not be held in place as well.
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The other side consists of a zipper meshed pouch that has a second
Velcro pouch inside. The smaller pouch is ideal for keeping bullet
vibrator, cock rings, condoms, lubricant sample packets and batteries
while the larger pouch can be used to store wand attachments, smaller
vibrators, anal toys and cleaning supplies.</div>
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Another storage use for this is BDSM gear. I was happy to see exactly
how much this can hold in relation to that. Smaller sized paddles
and other small impact toys fit nicely inside this, while also
fitting things such as cuffs, shorter lengths of rope, restraints,
and collars. This was a nice surprise use and the very reason that I
ordered another one.</div>
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As for being discreet, like I mentioned before a lock can be added to
the zipper. I also do not think that it would raise to much attention
if this was placed in either a bedside drawer or even under the bed.
It can also be slipped inside a suitcase or even in a larger
overnight bag for travel. It should be noted that the case does have
a small Eden leaf logo in one corner. The logo is raised and although
the same color purple can easily seen. There is also a tag on the
inside that says Eden Fantasys. The tag isn't a concern in the
privacy area since in order to actually see it the case would need to
be open.
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Its only packaging upon arrival was a clear plastic bag absent any
care instructions. I did wipe down the outside of the case with a
damp cloth since it accumulated some pet fur and lint during the
photo session. This did not seem to damage it in any visible way.
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So what exactly am I using mine for you ask. One case is being
utilized to keep both my Miracle Massager and my <a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/massagers/rechargeable-hitachi-style-wand#pcode-XMZ">Rechargeable HitachiStyle Wand</a> by Eden Fantasys and also four wand attachments. All items
fit nicely inside and I have no difficulty closing it. The other case
is going to be used for some BDSM storage. Mostly cuffs, collar and
chains and zip ties will be stored in it. It also fits a smaller crop
and Tantus
Plunge Paddle . Since it can be slid under the bed this means no
more getting up and raiding the storage dresser for my most used
toys.</div>
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I did find some fault with this. The major issue is the elastic
straps. These straps really can't secure thinner toys and also they
have quite a bit of give to them. This could result in some toys
sliding around on the inside and even perhaps slipping out of the
straps entirely. Another issue I found is that the inner Velcro
pouch can become stuck in the zipper if one isn't careful when
zipping shut the outer pouch. These faults however would not keep me
from recommending this.
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Overall I like this toy case. It is quality made, looks nice, and its
size allows for considerable storage possibilities. I liked it enough
to own two and I am seriously considering getting another. It is
affordable, can be locked, its quality is fairly good and it can be
used to store a lot of different items. I would love it if Eden
decided to make more of these cases in various sizes or even just
made one with a greater depth for larger sized dildo storage.
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<b><u><span style="font-size: x-large;">Casual Sex</span></u></b></h3>
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<i>* First off let me begin by stating that casual sex is not for
everyone. Some people may find that need an emotional attachment with
a person in order to engage in sexual activity or some form of a
commitment. </i>
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Casual
sex is something that I am very well
acquainted with and
something that enjoy doing.
Since
the day I lost my virginity I
have always loved
sex and pretty much figured out early on in my teens that I was
aromantic<a class="sdendnoteanc" href="https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=2142005882107045499#sdendnote1sym" name="sdendnote1anc" sdfixed=""><sup>1</sup></a>.
To be entirely honest my actual preference when it comes to types
of sexual
encounters that
I enjoy is
casual sex.
I like
the thrill of rough sex without worry of any
emotional baggage. Simple
acts that are purely driven by the basic human desire to get off and
to feel good, not based off emotional connections.</div>
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I have long counseled friends on both the joys and dangers of casual
sex. I am not going to give you a guide on how to have casual sex,
there are far too many articles out there about that topic. Besides
there is no wrong or right way to go about it per say. Nope, instead
I am going to give some tips to keep in mind.</div>
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<b>1. Think about it. And I mean really think about it.</b></div>
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Before ever acting think about if casual sex is right for you. In the
heat of the moment it can be very difficult to actually think clearly
through the hormonal surge of physical lust. I always tell my
friends that it is best to truly ponder this topic before ever
finding yourself in the situation.</div>
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Casual sex is not for everyone. Some people have little to no
difficulty when it comes to fucking just for the sake of fucking.
Others need an emotional connection with their partner to enhance
their enjoyment. It is also quite possible for what feels right at
the moment can become a regret later. They may feel dirty or as if
they cheapened themselves by fucking a stranger. These feeling can
also arise even if the sex is between two friends who share no
romantic bond.</div>
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Don't sweat it if you fall into the category of people for whom
casual sex is not right for. You are not abnormal in any way.
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Another thing to
keep in mind is the possibility of negative reactions from others.
You may have friends or family that may treat you differently should
it ever become knowledge what you are doing. This shouldn't sway
your decision, after all anything involving your sexual life is your
choice not others. You may want to look into being as discreet as
possible instead.</div>
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<b>2.Safety is a
must.</b></div>
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I can not stress how important safe sex practices are in regards to
casual sexual encounters. Condoms are a must if a penis is entering
any bodily orifice. Yes even for oral. Carry condoms, including
flavored ones. There are some cute and discreet condom cases out
there so that it won't be too obvious in your purse..pocket..glove
compartment...bedside. You can also use small cosmetic bags or even a
change purse to keep them hidden.
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Here is a link to a site on condoms and on proper condom use. <a href="http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-info/birth-control/condom">Planned
Parenthood</a></div>
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Dental dams should also be carried to be used for any oral contact
with the vagina or anus.</div>
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Please keep in mind that although there is a very small chance of it
happening, condoms can fail. The chances of this occurring with
perfect use (condoms used correctly and consistently for every sexual
encounter) is 2%. For the female condom perfect use failure is about
5%. The failure rates are higher in regards to typical use. So
please remember to educate yourself on proper condom usage.
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Because of the possibility of failure, even if it is a small
percentage it may best if the female is also using a backup form of
birth control (BC) just in case. In all my experiences I have only
had two condom mishaps(one broke, the other slipped off). Thankfully
I was also using another form of birth control or had immediate
access to Emergency Contraception (EC) so I merely had to go for STD
testing afterward.</div>
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I always tell my friends to have a backup plan. Shit can happen. If
the female isn't using some other form of BC it is a very good idea
to have EC on hand rather than waste time having to track down a
place that has it in stock or willing to sell it when you absolutely
need it.
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I also advise my friends to get periodic STD testing. A lot of
clinics perform these for free and also have tons of information on
STD's and sexual health on hand. I actually suggest that everyone
who is sexually active get testing, even if they are in a monogamous
relationship.</div>
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If your partner entirely refuses to use protection politely refuse to
go any further with them and get the hell out there. No sex, not
even the possibility of mind blowing great sex is worth the risk to
your sexual health.</div>
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<b>3.
Communication.</b></div>
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Yeah
yeah I know. One of the great things about casual sex is that it is
meant to be hassle free, but the thing is everyone involved should
feel comfortable enough to let the other know what they like or don't
like. You don't have to
have deep meaningful conversations but you should at least let the
other know what you enjoy or don't enjoy.</div>
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My philosophy is that ff you re not comfortable enough talking about
sex with a prospective partner then you more than likely shouldn't be
having that sex to begin with.
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<b>4. Respect.</b></div>
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I honestly shouldn't have to list this but sadly some people lack
common sense. Respect yourself. Respect your partner.</div>
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Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable and like wise don't
pressure your partner into doing anything that makes them
uncomfortable.
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Have respect when it comes to the pleasure of your partner. This
isn't only about you, do what is within your abilities to leave them
just as satisfied as you are.
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Also respect your partner afterward. In other words don't kiss and
tell.
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<b>5. Expectations-
don't really have any.</b></div>
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Don't have any expectations what so ever about the hook-up. That
includes even the expectation of fucking. Things happen, perhaps
someone gets uncomfortable and decides not do go through with it, or
perhaps things are cooperating as much as we would like.
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<b>6.</b> <b>Be true to yourself, your beliefs and what you really
want.</b></div>
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This is the most important factor in deciding if casual sex is right
for you. Do not do it because your friends are. Do not do it because
others say you should. Do it because you want to. If friends and
acquaintances keep pressuring you to engage in sex acts that you know
are not right for you ignore them and get new friends. No one should
ever pressure another person, not your partners and certainly not
your friends. No one has the right to make choices for you when it
comes to your sex life. Those choices are yours alone to make.</div>
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</span><span style="color: #252525;"><span style="font-family: Liberation Serif, serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">Aromantic
means having a </span></span></span><span style="color: #252525;"><span style="font-family: Liberation Serif, serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">lack
of romantic attraction towards anyone. </span></span></span><span style="color: #252525;"><span style="font-family: Liberation Serif, serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">I
tend to describe what I feel for my partners as more along the lines
of platonic love. </span></span></span><span style="font-family: Liberation Serif, serif;"><span style="font-size: 10pt;">
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<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">I
am enamored with Fun Factory. Maybe it is because they are a German
company (I have thing for Germans and Germany in general) Or maybe it
is because of the quality of their products which never disappoint.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Tiger
is a gorgeous dildo. Being 100% silicone Tiger has no odor, no taste
and is body safe and easy to clean. Beautiful in design with
pronounced ribbed stripes along the shaft and a tapered head that
allows for easy insertion. The flared base helps secure it in while being used with either a harness or the
Liberator BonBon toy mount. It is also can be comfortably held in
the hand for those who enjoy hands on play or having it used upon
them with a partner. </span></span>
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<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">I
own a few other dildos that have a ribbed texture, usually there is
the fatal flaw that the ribs cause so much drag that extra lube is
needed, which in turn lessens the friction. This does not appear to
be the case with Tiger. I was able to insert and use with just the
normal amount of lubricant that I would use with a less textured
dildo. </span></span>
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<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">The
ribbed stripes can be felt on the vaginal/anal walls yet don't
provide enough drag that it distracts from actual use. I needed very
little lube for play. This may be because of the smaller girth. I
usually choose dildos with a sizable girth, but Tiger is 1.75 inches
in diameter (almost 5.5 in circumference) at its widest. Its total
insertion length is about 7.25 inches. I normally do not enjoy
insertion toys that have a girth of less than 2 inches wide, but the
stripes combined with the length more than made up for the lack of
thickness. </span></span>
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<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">The
curved head allowed for easier G Spot stimulation. It was interesting
to be able to feel the actual stripes against the G Spot. The
silicone is flexible. While it is not soft and supple it is able to
be bent and therefore allows for easier reach and movement with your
body or if being used with a toy mount like the Liberator BonBon or
Wing would allow the user to bend forward for easier double
penetration with a partner. Or if being used with a harness one could
engage in missionary position spooning positions (either front facing
or rear entry). It doesn't feel lifelike, the material having a tacky
like feel to it. I wouldn't describe it as fully sticky but it would
be extremely difficult to slide your hand up and down it without the
aid of lubricant. </span></span>
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silicone causes it to be a complete and utter lint/hair/fur/etc
magnet. Just setting it out for the few minutes that it took for
prep and it was covered, and that was right after I washed it. To
combat this problem there are a few solutions, the one that I use is
a damp lint free cloth that I use to wipe down toys with before
applying lube. Also keep this in mind while storing Tiger. While it
is not really necessary to store good quality 100% silicone toy in a
manner that keeps them from touching, I find that simply storing them
in individual plastic baggies or in a lint free storage pouch keeps
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used Tiger two different ways: hand held, and inside a toy mount. It hit the G spot during some
of them better than others. The base can act as a suction cup, but I found it to be insignificant for use, enough so that I was unable to actually use it in that manner. So if you are looking for a dildo to suction cup to a wall or the floor this toy might not be such a great idea.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 100%;">The
base was easy to grip, base was firmly against my palm while my
fingers came up over the flared edges. This holding style allowed for
doggy position (on knees bent forward) While I did try it out while
laying on my back I found it more comfortable to grip around the base
of the shaft which decreased the insertion length. Weight wise is
fairly light and I didn't have to have my wrist contorted into
strange angles to use. While I had pretty good G Spot stimulation in
both positions I did find that the thrust was somewhat lacking. So if
like vigorous thrusting is best held by the base of the shaft, but
keep in mind that insertion length will be diminished. This might not
be an issue for users who enjoy less vigorous thrusting when it comes
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<span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">I
recently invested in the Liberator BonBon. I really enjoy riding
cocks, and this toy mount seemed perfect for me. Tiger fit securely
in it, staying put even during the hardest of rides. This also
allowed me to better adjust my angle giving me direct G Spot
stimulation when I wanted it. And G Spot stimulation is did give. I
had a better sense of the ribbed stripes against G Spot. While Tiger
is not the perfect toy for G Spot stimulation it does the trick just
fine I found when coupled with the BonBon. I could lean forward,
pressing down against the toy. The flexibility of Tiger made this
more comfortable as it moved with my body. Unlike the unyielding
material of glass or silicone that was firmer or more rigid and
fought against movement.</span></span></div>
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is fairly simple and straightforward. All sex toys should be cleaned
both prior to use and after. Silicone is non porous and easier to
clean and maintain. This can be achieved by either using hand soap,
dish soap or toy cleaner. Tiger can also be tossed in the top rack of
a dish washer or sterilized by either boiling or with a 10% bleach
solution. I find the ability to sterilize a toy a major plus in the
case of toys that may be shared between various partners or used for
both vaginal and anal play<i>(always remember to thoroughly clean and
sanitize a toy that was used anally before using it for vaginal play
to decrease the odds of harmful bacteria being introduced into the
vagina) </i></span></span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 100%;">Make
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is also simple. I personally use various methods of storage, but keep
all my silicone toys either in individual plastic baggies or wrapped
in lint free cloth. Tiger also can be stored inside the original
box. While the outer box is not discreet, two of its sides have
pictures of Tiger the inner box is ideal for semi discreet storage in either a dresser drawer or on a closet shelf as shown in the
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If there is anything that I hate more in life it is trend following.
Maybe my dislike for such attitudes comes from the rebellious days of
my youth or maybe it rooted in my firm belief that trends are quite
frankly stupid and sometimes can have harmful effects on some people.</div>
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Who can forget the Sex In The City great rabbit craze, most certainly
I do not. At that time I worked in an Adult Store and saw many a
female come in, blushing and stuttering as they asked for “that
toy..you know that one that was in Sex In The City.” Insert eyes
adverting in shame here.</div>
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Yes is was good that female masturbation got a positive portrayal in
media. That female self pleasure was now on the lips of many, but
what was horrible about that situation was the women who would return
flabbergasted that the toy so raved about was actually a dud for
them. A few even questioned if there was something wrong with them,
maybe they were sexually defected in some way. I would quickly try
my best to reassure them that no, they were not odd. That there are
various different types of stimulation and what works for some may
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About the same time I kept hearing from friends about the need to be
sexually promiscuous. They weren't pressuring me to fuck a lot, I
already was and they knew that. They were talking about themselves. A
combination of media hype in female oriented magazines and maybe even
due to some of my own colorful stories they felt that they were
lacking in sexual experience. Never mind the fact that for them a
hedonistic lifestyle was not something that they truly desired, they
just felt pressured to do it.</div>
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remember asking them if they were happy and satisfied with their
current sex lives. They would usually answer yes, and a few were even
honest to admit that they were only tempted because a magazine
article that they
had read had said that a woman in charge of her sexuality does XYZ.
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In return I would quickly point out that no, a woman who is charge of
her sexuality does what she wants not what others say she should.
That as long as one is happy, comfortable and satisfied with their
sexuality there is no reason to step outside their comfort zone and
engage in behavior that is not something they actually want to do. I
would council them into doing what they wanted to do not what others
said they should do.</div>
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In the sex blogging sphere there is a tendency to use the term Sex
Positive. Is has become a trend of sorts for bloggers to tag their blogs with that phrase, yet many of these same bloggers screaming the term often times
come across as arrogant ( I know more, therefore I know what is best
for you) or question readers about the “standards” of a readers
view or experience. A few have even gone so far as to actually
question if another is abnormal because they don't enjoy some sexual act or sexual aids. Or applying pressure (subtly but still
pressure none the less) to engage in everything from open
relationships, having multiple partners, BDSM to entrusting our
pleasure to be in their hands because <b>they know</b> what will work for
us. Ahhh how the hell is this being sex positive.
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I have even encountered one blogger that is so arrogant, so fucking
pretentious that I can't help but laugh knowing that they are
eventually going to crash and burn in this industry when
others see the self righteous tone flimsily hidden under the guise of helping
others.
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Being sex positive is not only about promoting and exploring your own
sexuality is a healthy, safe and non judgmental way but also
recognizing that different people have different preferences, wants,
and needs and being non judging in situations where you encounter
those people that are different then yourself. As a sex positive
blogger you should focus on sex education, safety and understand that
as long as all parties are consenting that you shouldn't judge. Not screaming how your sexual preferences are right and everyone else is wrong. There is nothing wrong with promoting your own sexual lifestyle, the problem is when you treat yours as the only correct one. </div>
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You
should be a voice of empowerment, helping and supporting others in
the recognizing what is right for them, encouraging them to be true to themselves and not fold under pressure to engage in activities that are wrong for them or not something that they like.</div>
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I am not even going to touch upon the misandry that permeates in many
of the blogs but I will say this, empowering one gender by bashing
another is not empowerment. It is marginalizing others in an
attempt to make one seem more superior when in reality we are all
pretty much equal. You can empower one and not have to paint the
others in a negative light.
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Oral Sex: Sucking Dick</span></h2>
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There is something to be said about sucking dick. The velvety softness of the skin as it slides between your lips. The pulsing heat of arousal as he gets closer to coming. That sexy way his breath hitches a little as your tongue dips between foreskin and glans, to the way he tenses to keep from thrusting as you suck him. All ending with soft groans as he empties himself into your mouth.<br />
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I love sucking dick. The art of giving a blow job is just that, an art form. I have encountered many articles and blog entries about how to give a blow job, and while they had some good honest tips they were not perfect. See there is no single method that is going to get every guy off every time. The most important factor is finding out what he enjoys and going from there.<br />
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<b>1. Be safe. </b>One of my biggest pet peeves is how much attention vaginal and anal sex receive during safe sex practices while oral sex is largely ignored or a mere after thought. It is possible to contract an STD while engaging in oral so unless you are fluid bonded with the person please use protection. Latex or Polyurethane condoms can be used or oral. My motto is if you won't let his dick in your pussy or ass without a condom why in the world would you allow it in your mouth without one. Flavored condoms are a god send in this area, but if you prefer just get non lubricated and use flavored lube with it.<br />
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<i>Side note: Dental dams or <a href="http://glydehealth.com/products/sheer-glyde-dams/">Sheer GLYDE</a> dams can be used when performing for oral vaginal sex (cunnilingus) or even for rimming (also known as anilingus or licking the anus). If either of these are not readily handy you can cut a regular condom (split down one side) and use that instead. </i><br />
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<b>2. Honest and open communication.</b> Sexual partners should be at ease discussing what they like and dislike in regards to sexual acts. Relax and try to be as open during discussions as possible. Both partners should feel comfortable enough to share their preferences. The receiver should voice what sort of things they enjoy, while the giver should be honest as to what is within their capabilities (deep throating..etc) or what might make them uncomfortable. <br />
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<b>3. Gentle guidance. </b>This goes along with the first piece advice and expands more upon it.. Try not to insult your sexual partner but instead explain what you like and how you like it done. Likewise the giver should be open to feedback. Just because your ex liked a certain thing means that your current partner will also. <br />
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<b>4. Try not to view it as a race or contest.</b> take your time and don't be discouraged if you can't get your man off in minutes. Or if you can't get him off at all. Some men may actually find it difficult if not impossible to come from oral sex. This is completely normal as oral stimulation may not be enough for them or they may be too sensitive. <br />
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<b>5. Practice. Practice. Practice. </b>When it comes to oral sex, practice does make perfect<b>. </b> Practice on your partner. Practice with a dildo.Get used to feel of something phallic like in your mouth so it isn't that much of a shock when a warm throbbing one is filling up your mouth. Some individuals have a natural talent for dick sucking while others need practice.<br />
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Also don't fret too much about deep throating. While some people are able to master this with their first blow job others struggle with taking a cock down the throat. Could be a sensitive gag reflex or perhaps the dick is just is too large. There are gels for this but I honestly can't recommend them as I have never used them. If this is something that you would like to try research them and read all the reviews before purchasing.<br />
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<b>What if he is intact(not circumcised)?</b><br />
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I have been with quite a few guys who were intact and never really found the foreskin to be an issue when it comes to sucking them off. As long as he keeps himself clean there shouldn't be any disgusting surprises. As I stated above ask him what he enjoys, he'll tell you. I had one partner that loved having his foreskin played with and lots of focused licks to the head while another said he was too sensitive and wanted more attention given to his shaft and balls. <br />
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As any reader of my
blog could have guessed, my toy box is constantly expanding. This
means that besides keeping a close eye on spending I am also
constantly on the look out for storage ideas. In an earlier post I
covered the various ways that I store my toys from the bags that my
come with them, to boxes and make-up cases.
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This past September
I found myself with a little extra on hand cash and a strong wanting
of The Tantus Plunge Paddle. After considering my options I went on
over to <a href="http://www.liberator.com/">Liberator</a> and placed
an order. Since the cost of the <a href="http://www.liberator.com/tantus-plunge-paddle-dildo.html">Tantus
Plunge</a> was below the minimum needed for free shipping (and I
still had extra cash) and I tossed on a few more items including two
of The Couture Toy Cases and also grabbed the Dante Denim toy bag
since it was being offered as a free promotional gift with orders
over $75.
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Yes I am aware of
the fact that make-up bags are cheaper (I can usually pick them up
for a few dollars) but I was very curious about the Couture Bags and
the one was the perfect size for storing The Plunge. So how do they
stack up?</div>
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<u><b>Dante
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I'll start with the free gift or this review post. The <a href="http://www.liberator.com/dante-denim-toy-bag.html">Dante
Denim Toy Bag</a> was offered as a free gift with orders over $75.
It retails for $15 if one were looking to purchase it because of
either it no longer being offered as a promo gift, your purchase
amount is under the minimum needed or if you wanted to add another to
your order.
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Dante
is crafted by Cone Denim. The bags outer material is made of quality
dark denim, while the inside is twill and comes in various colors.
The
material is neither water proof or water resistant so care should be
taken if you are going to store liquids in this. Over all the
quality of bag is really good. It looks sleek, doesn't come across
as cheaply made, both stitching and its single zipper are sturdy and
don't appear to be done haphazardly.</div>
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It
blends in easily inside of either a dresser drawer, over night bag or
even a purse. The
zipper tag does have a tag that says Liberator attached to it but for
the most part anyone
encountering it should be none the wiser as to its contents just by
visual inspection. Please
note that there is no way to lock this bag, so anyone who does
stumble upon can easily open it.
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Care
is fairly easily. I washed mine on gentle cycle in cold water and
then tumbled dry low without any noticeable fading or damage.</div>
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<span style="line-height: 100%;">With
it measurements of 11 inches by 6 inches Dante is ideal for storing a
wide variety of different styles of toys and
accessories. It can also be used for storage of smaller dildos. I
have been using it to store some of my anal beads and anal probes. As
you can see from the following pictures it easily holds two sets of
beads, three probes and one larger anal toy and still has room to
hold more.</span><br />
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Although
I currently have a use for Dante I
thought it would be interesting to see if it could also
be
used to store some of my
dildos. I
was pleasantly surprised to learn that is can indeed be used for
storing dildos.</div>
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I
easily held the The <a href="http://www.liberator.com/tantus-flex-dual-dildo.html">Tantus
Flex Duel Dildo</a>
and I still had room for another smaller dildo or small vibrator.
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I
could also fit three small dildos in there together. The <a href="http://www.liberator.com/tantus-throb-dildo.html">Tantus
Throb</a>,
<a href="http://www.liberator.com/vixen-realistic-small-bent-dildo.html">Vixen
Small Realistic Bent</a>,
and <a href="http://www.liberator.com/vixen-mistress-dildo-purple.html">Vixen
Mistress</a>.
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Moving
onto larger dildos
I was able to fit both the <a href="http://www.liberator.com/sex-toys/dildos/tantus-crush-o2-dildo.html">Tantus
Crush</a>
and <a href="http://www.liberator.com/tantus-flurry-o2-dildo.html">Tantus
Flurry</a>.</div>
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So
while this storage bag is not ideal for much larger toys such as some
of the wand styled massagers and larger dildos such as Tantus Hoss
and Doc Johnsons Man O War it would okay for a toy that has an over
all length of about 8 inches or under. The fact that it has size
that allows for the storage of various different styles of toys, is
made well, looks nice and is fairly discreet I would recommend
checking Dante out.
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<u><b>Quick
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<b>Material:</b> Denim exterior with a twill interior.</div>
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<b>Size: </b>11 inch by 6 inch</div>
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<b>Pros: </b>Easy to keep clean
and care for.</div>
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Size allows for various different types of toys to be
stored inside.</div>
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Easily can be concealed inside a dresser drawer, over
night bag etc.</div>
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Appears to be good quality</div>
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<b>Cons: </b>Not water proof or
water resistant</div>
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Can not be locked</div>
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Liberator tag on zipper makes this not 100% discrete<br />
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I will be posting the reviews for the other two bags shortly :)</div>
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I know I am going to start a shit storm but who the fuck cares.<br />
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Slut. Whore. I have been called that
and much more to my face. Almost always the words were uttered by
females. The only time those words were ever uttered by males were
during bedroom encounters and only after my own urging. Is this a
phenomena that I have managed to escape: men using sexually
derogatory terms...men not taking no for an answer...men coming on to
me in overtly sexual manners that crosses the line...</div>
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Or perhaps it is the fact that I make
my intentions clear from the start. If I am not interested I let the
other person know it. I am not coy, I do not beat around the bush.
I just state “I am flattered, but I am not interested/attracted to
you.” I leave it at that and walk away (if they haven't already).
No need to elaborate and perhaps confuse the poor person. In my
experience those who identify as male have always taken the rejection
well, it was women who continued to flirt even after I made my
position clear. It was with them that I was forced to elaborate and
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I am a very aggressive person by
nature. I am also self confident. Two things that I not afraid to
show, damned being a lady. I have had sexual relations with well over a
hundred people, yet like I said it has been only females who have
openly judged me for that. As a teen in high school it was the girls
who spread the rumors that I took on a group of boys over the
weekend. It was the girls who physically accosted me for being in
touch with my sexuality and not ashamed to explore it. The boys?
They largely ignored it, or were curious as to techniques that girls
might enjoy.<br />
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Females are far more vindictive. How
often has one witnessed a the male counterpart of a broken
relationship go out and do something to get his ex back...Or engaging the new partner of the ex to fight. Now compare
that to females engaging in such acts. The scale does tip more
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As an adult I have encountered far more
females who think me abnormal for owning and using sex toys. I have
heard everything from obviously my partner doesn't satisfy me...that
I must be some type of cock slut to masturbate...to I am plain weird
because “normal” females don't do such “disgusting” things.
My male friends on the other hand are intrigued. They will ask
questions pertaining to ideas of bringing their female partners as
much pleasure as possible. They have even remarked that it is refreshing to know a female that not only isn't afraid of her sexuality but explores it freely.</div>
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I have watched some of them be called
assholes because of one night stands. The girl they fucked now feeling
hurt and betrayed when the sun came up and realization sunk in that
yes they were indeed nothing more that a single night of fun. This
would piss me off as I had seen my male friends always be up front
and honest about their intentions with these girls, clearly stating from the get go that they were merely looking for a little fun. It was the girls who pressed and
then went psycho when things didn't go their way and the harsh
reality that he had spoken the truth before the hook-up took hold. I
even had the same shit happen, girls taking one night stands to mean
I wanted more...even when I told them from the start (at the
bar/club) that I was only looking for a quick fuck. I can't count how
many times I heard “I thought you might change your mind. ”More
often than not I was called a bitch or a whore because I didn't want
a relationship. Never once were those words uttered by males. The
men took it for what it was, a no strings attached wild night of sex.
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So as we bash the opposite gender we
should also look at ours. Females are far more vicious than males
when it comes to persecuting females. And if men are said to encourage this type
of behavior why then do the vast majority of them get disgusted when they see
this or stare in disbelief as their girlfriend rips down another of
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By some peoples standards I am a slut.</div>
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Overall Spunk Hybrid is great lubricant
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